Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition oriented fellowship based on the model pioneered by Alcoholics Anonymous. The only qualification for S.L.A.A. membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction. S.L.A.A. is supported entirely through the contributions of its membership and is free to all who need it.

  • (434) 515-1233

    Leave a text or voicemail, and someone will be in touch with you. Please specify whether you would like a male or female member to contact you.

  • cslaa@avenue.org

    Email us at cslaa@avenue.org to get information, and to get the locations and times of our meetings. Please specify whether you would prefer to be contacted by a male or female member.

  • Closed Meetings

    Meetings are closed to outsiders and those who are merely curious. However, if you believe you have a problem with sex and love addiction, contact us.

  • All Genders and Orientations

    We find a common denominator in our obsessive/compulsive patterns, which transcends any personal differences of sexual orientation or gender identity.

  • Times and Locations

    Meetings are held year-round in the City of Charlottesville, Virginia

    Tuesdays 5:30-6:30 pm
    Saturdays 5:00-6:00 pm

    Since these are CLOSED meetings, please contact us for meeting locations and to verify times.

The S.L.A.A. Preamble

Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition oriented fellowship based on the model pioneered by Alcoholics Anonymous. The only qualification for S.L.A.A. membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction. S.L.A.A. is supported entirely through the contributions of its membership and is free to all who need it. To counter the destructive consequences of sex and love addiction, we draw on five major resources:

  1. Sobriety. Our willingness to stop acting out in our own personal bottom-line addictive behavior on a daily basis.
  2. Sponsorship / Meetings. Our capacity to reach out for the supportive fellowship within S.L.A.A.
  3. Steps. Our practice of the Twelve Step program of recovery to achieve sexual and emotional sobriety.
  4. Service. Our giving back to the S.L.A.A. community what we continue to freely receive.
  5. Spirituality. Our developing a relationship with a Power greater than ourselves which can guide and sustain us in recovery.

As a fellowship S.L.A.A. has no opinion on outside issues and seeks no controversy. S.L.A.A. is not affiliated with any other organizations, movements or causes, either religious or secular. We are, however, united in a common focus: dealing with our addictive sexual and emotional behavior. We find a common denominator in our obsessive/compulsive patterns, which transcends any personal differences of sexual orientation or gender identity. We need protect with special care the anonymity of every S.L.A.A. member. Additionally we try to avoid drawing undue attention to S.L.A.A. as a whole from the public media.

The Twelve Steps of S.L.A.A.

Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition oriented fellowship based on the model pioneered by Alcoholics Anonymous. The only qualification for S.L.A.A. membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction. S.L.A.A. is supported entirely through the contributions of its membership and is free to all who need it. To counter the destructive consequences of sex and love addiction, we draw on five major resources:

  1. 1. We admitted we were powerless over sex and love addiction - that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God.
  4. 4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
  5. 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
  6. 6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
  7. 7. Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.
  8. 8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
  9. 9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
  10. 10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
  11. 11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with a Power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God's will for us and the power to carry that out.
  12. 12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps,we tried to carry this message to sex and love addicts and to practice these principles in all areas of our lives.
  13. The Twelve Steps are reprinted and adapted with permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. Permission to reprint and adapt the Twelve Steps does not mean that A.A. is affiliated with this program. A.A. is a program of recovery from alcoholism only. Use of the Twelve Steps in connection with programs and activities, which are patterned after A.A., but which address other problems, does not imply otherwise.